Fresh queen of Belair

I've moved in!!

After a month of living out of a bag and not too particularly comfortable either, I've Finally moved in.

After the event last night, I went to get the car sorted.
9'20am to 2'20pm the guy worked. Consistent work for 5hrs. If he took a 10 minute break throughout that time, that's a lot.
I kid you not.

The car was in a mess. Parts of it still are. But the beauty of the machine is now apparent.

Cut to hurrying over to the airbnb, grabbing my bags and shooting to cost u less to get some vitals (as well as frozen food while I wait on my pots).
Get over to the house, unpack the whole car and I start to wipe down items, and then mop aaanndd wipe more again..

It is now 8.16pm. I am showered, exhausted and in bed. My feet ache, my back hurts,my sheets are too small but I'm finally here!!

Belair!

Sunday Funday!

Well I am definitely getting into the swing of things here in SXM. I've found a volleyball team (so now I can loose these pesky pounds) I've found my favorite eating place in the Simpson Bay area - a ridiculous health food store called Top Carrot I've finally gotten to see my new digs in Belair (more on that later) I had to blaze a 'vagrant' or two along the Boardwalk in Philipsburg - unlike the locals who just scurry away. So! This weekend was really doing all things local. Friday, I braved the streets and went to check out the local KFC. Word of advice..dont do it. The original is just oil on bones and the spicy is overcooked to the point that it's tough. Even the biscuit was disappointing *womp womp* Saturday, I went to volleyball training session for 2 hours!!!!! Before I could take a snooze I ended up bumming a ride to Kooymans - as I'll be moving into my new digs at the end of this month to get my cleaning game on and get some essentials...lawd this place expensive. Then on Saturday night *whew* I had a busy day, I went to a volleyball championship playoff that ended at 1am!!! I really do not know how or why these people schedule games for dead of night but..it's the ppl place. As usual it was full of excitement and ole talk which was great and made me really feel 'at home'. Sunday...oh Sunday... After arriving home at 1.05am after the games, I had to get up at 4.30am to go to a walk-a-thon..yes...4.30am. So they schedule vball matches at the dead of night, and walk-a-thons at the Zombie hour. lol. However, when they finally got started, the route took me through a short cut to the house in Belair..so that was pleasant. otherwise I did a 3km walk and run..and I'm glad I did - anything longer (which was the 10km) would have been certain death for me...However, I am interested in training enoguh to be able to run an entire 3km. I prob ran/jogged/slow crawled 1/3 of the course..sooo not too bad. Did the whole thing in 29 minutes while sightseeing and admiring the mountains! lol Then! Before I could fall asleep properly (I do confess to taking a nap in the Guardian offices after the walk a thon), my hostess took me to the house so I could see it as the old tenants were moving out... OMG...some expats have NO shame..the wear and tear of this home after these people occupied the place for 1 years is ABYSMAL. They didnt even want to clean the damn place and was nickle and diming my host about what they left behind could contribute to the cleaning bill..MY WORD! AND JUST TALK ABOUT NASTY!!! I honestly think 1 week is NOT enough for them to do everything..however, the purpose was served where we knew what was missing, what needed EXTENSIVE cleaning and what furniture I'd need to get short to long terms...but these people...nasty!!! ugh..I almost don't want to take up occupancy after them. I also feel sorry for the owner as I'm sure she'll prob have to spend the equivalent of a month's rent in getting the property back on its feet. So that was the first con..but rectifiable After thaaaaat! I went to the beach (as I can see the beach from my temp accommodation, can walk to it in less than 20 seconds, but havent stepped foot in the water in near 2 damned weeks!). So got there, took a chair and paddled in the water for about 20 minutes. Checked out the ilovesxm bar which has a trini playing DJ on sundays and apparently there's another trini playing pan in the bar next door as well on a sunday!!! wooohoo! pros all around! buut of course there are some cons. Second con about SXM I've realised is that the men here are particularly...parched..thirsty..randy..horny..Dont know if its because I am considered 'fresh meat'..but damn they are forward with their interrogations and WASTE NO TIME in asking you out. ugh. Give me breathing space..please. I enjoy my pace of life right now. THey need to go get a drink of water...and not nikki water. lol But back to the good...my car SHOULD arrive this week! yay!! I SHOULD get paid this week DOUBLE YAY!!! LOL

Week 1

Well..its a little past hump week, and I can most certainly say that, although no actual work has started, I am learning things..adult things

Things like why landlords put clauses in their leases that access to the commercial building is limited to 10pm

Until you find out that the previous tenant sought to diversify their income stream by introducing a *cough cough* massage parlour.

I kid you not

I cackled.

Anywhoser, after checking out the offices to which we'll be relocating with my new boss, I've been put in charge of arranging the architects and getting insurance quotations. The latter, yeah..small thing. The former? Huh!?

So.basically I have now entered the world of...procurement.

Save me.

#sxmstrong

It's been a while!!

Whew!! Well it's been a while!

So many changes so fast!

Beau and I of 10 years,  are now ex-Beau and I. Miscommunication, resentment, too much love and that feeling of a lack of support were the usual culprits of our demise. Tantamount for me is support and someone that's dependable. That's my deal breaker, otherwise it feels like sabotage in some ways :(. After 10 years, the deal broke :( . However, amidst all the bruhahaah, I know that I'll always consider him my best friend

I bought and renovated a home on my own which was one of the most stressful, gut wrenching and risky things I ever encountered, and

I left my job!!

Oh you do not know the satisfaction that I get every time I get to utter those words. From April 24, 2019 till now it has been pure bliss. I have been uninspired and unchallenged professionally for quite some time. Throw in a poisonous office environment, and you have the perfect conditions for a sweet sweet Exodus.

On May 26 I start my new job, and although not excited, I recognize that I'll be punching above my weight. So it's time to sink or swim and gather that true grit that I have - I asked for a challenge and I'm sure going to get one

So after 4 years in Trinidad, I'm heading back out again.. boy..am I busy. This time I'll be heading to St Maarten. A small island in the Caribbean, which is basically separated and governed by two different countries. There's Sint Maarten, thé Dutch side and St Martin, the French side.

And for anywhere between 1 and 4 years I'll be residing on the Dutch side of Sint Maarten as an expat. I'm not scared, nor excited...let's just see what this life has in store for me!

Allons-y!